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    A 5-year Crush

    This is more of an inquiry thread, not much of a rant.
    I never disclosed this to anyone except my best friend, but let me tell you anyways.
    This is my story.

    It all started when I was 10. The girl I admired (Ang as a reference) was in the same class with me. She was a prefect. At first, I didn't feel interested in her as I wasn't with most other girls. But as the days passed, I began to secretly admire her. She's cute and nice. So I spent the last few months having a crush on her. Whenever I get close to her, I try to act badass (I have to admit, I look pretty stupid.) but to no avail.

    The next year, we started to use Windows Live Messenger. We rarely talk at school, but using MSN, we chatted like there was no tomorrow. A bunch of my other friends also had MSN, so we made a group just for the class. So, we chatted, but I still kept that little secret to myself. Whenever I get close to her, I get tongue-tied, got so nervous I don't know what to say. So this continued for the whole year.

    At 12, which was my last year at primary school, I finally got to sit with her. She was now the head prefect of the school. I expected we would talk a lot, but no. Seems that, whenever we want to talk, we only passed notes, feels a little awkward talking to a girl in front of everyone who was so childish and gender-biased at the moment. I waited until mid-year, I confessed to her in MSN. She wasn't shocked at all, in fact she had a lot of confessions which means a lot of people were into her. She said that at least I was better than someone else, but she didn't give me the answer, she left me hanging. That boosted my spirits. So I gave her time, until the last day of school, we had a party in our class. I saw her blushing when another boy acted badass in front of her, while I was sitting to my friend in a corner eating. The moment I saw that, jealousy came right out. I was heartbroken. At home, I told her that. She admitted she liked that boy. It's alright, I wanted the best for her, so I didn't care much and I waited.

    At 13, we were in secondary school. We were in the same school again, this time the boy was in a different school. At first, I thought this was a new school, so I wanted to make new girl friends, but no one was obliged (FOREVER ALONE!). I started to look for her again, but now, when we meet, we never even made eye contact. She was not the girl I remembered. Now, she was hanging out with guys from higher grades (no, I'm not using the word slut, I'm giving her respect.) and shouting profanity willy-nilly. I was surprised, a head prefect just became a tomboy. I was disappointed and angry. So, I became depressed for a moment and I decided to take care of my studies instead. As a result, I got the second place among 511 students in my grade. Still, the spark was still there.

    At 14, she was one of the members of the "tomboy gang" which liked to insult people for absolutely no reason at all. One day the leader insulted me with this: "Can you find yourself among these people?" She highlighted the shortest one there and said 'You'. I saw Ang laugh, I was so angry so I torn the paper into shreds and kept quite the whole day. I kept that feeling until 6 months later, I asked her if she had help draw the picture. She said she had forgotten, but she said sorry because it's like this with friends. Although I accepted the apology, I still somehow think she was not interested in me, either as a friend or whatever.

    So here are my questions:
    1) Should I continue this relationship or just quit to find another one?
    2) What do women want in men? Most of the girls in my school are into the handsome ones and the fags, I don't know why.
    3) Assume that you are a girl, and if your boyfriend was short, tan and not so handsome, would you still want him?

    Sorry for the wall of text. I got this thing out after finishing every episode of SAO in 2 days.

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    1. You should be the one to decide that
    2. Depends on the person.
    3. Personality first.

    Yes, my answers doesn't help at all.

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    1) I think that you should just move on to another person becuase she seems like she is taking up to much of your time. In the mean time focus on your studies but keep your head up. Never give up, i was in a situation like that but then i moved on and now i have a wonderful girlfriend. Good luck!!!

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    Oh an don't sto playing maple. PM me if you need any more opinions!

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    Kay honestly, I don't mean this in an offensive way. Take it as advice:
    But you need to seriously take action. 5 years and nothing? Yes you told her, but you need to do more than that.

    Second, totally putting yourself down does not help either.

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    Should I confess for a second time?

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    Try confess her for the second time if still cannot make it then give up because you can't waste your precious time just because of a girl

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    Quote Originally Posted by HumanoidRobo View Post
    Try confess her for the second time if still cannot make it then give up because you can't waste your precious time just because of a girl
    Thanks for the advice. I'll go confess to her at Christmas Eve, and take the chance to wish her Merry Christmas.

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    your welcome:)Hope that you will get what you always wanted during christmas:)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chong View Post
    Thanks for the advice. I'll go confess to her at Christmas Eve, and take the chance to wish her Merry Christmas.
    i think that should work sounds romantic hope it works but if not there's probably no point and that is a definite sign you should move on :)(moral support)

 

 
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