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    Immature Classmates v2

    Making another rant here, a sequel to v1.
    Here's v1 -------------> Immature classmates
    Now things have progressed quickly, I'm now on good terms with them and is even a part of their gang.
    But sometimes they take things too far.
    The story goes:

    We were having our trials last week, and the trial was really hard, so someone just HAD to cheat.
    The week passed and everything went swell, up to that day.
    My friend suddenly saw some writing on the table behind his, and the writing was important tips for the exam.
    And they suddenly became intense, like 'Who did this?' and so on.
    They started to 'investigate' the handwriting and concluded it was a girl in our gang. (name was Ivy)
    She used the exact same table during the trials, with her handwriting all over it.
    This confirmed the suspicion of her English paper, when she got 5 mistakes only while the average Joe got a whopping 12 mistakes out of 40.
    They think that she might have cheated her way up.
    Since English was a major language subject, it carries a lot of marks and a simple score might mean a big difference in ranking.
    At the time she was talking to other girls, but she knew that we were talking about her (since his voice is naturally loud)
    So she pretended like she knew nothing and continued talking.
    This was okay, the secret was within our class and was with us, no one except us knew.
    Right until when he wanted me to post on Facebook.
    They wanted me to diss her on Facebook, since they said my English was better than theirs and I wouldn't be too obvious.
    I said no, since this shouldn't be exaggerated, but they insisted and even threatened me.
    I had no choice but to write it.
    I thought it wouldn't do any harm, since I really wasn't obvious.
    But other people caught wind of it, asked my friend and posts started to come at a rapid pace.
    Now almost the whole school knows about this.
    I immediately took down my post, to prevent further misunderstanding.
    But by the time I did that it was already too late.

    Now, she doesn't talk to us anymore.
    I think she had cut all ties with us.
    From the sociable (and quite cute) girl whom we knew for 8 months, just disappeared in a week.
    She would even flirt with me (in a friendly way), now she doesn't even bat an eye. (I even liked her for once)
    Now I know, the real victims of this are the ones who got down the ranks by having worse results than hers, so I'm in no position to speak.
    They resorted to dissing her on Facebook and shit, she would definitely feel bullied, and I sympathize with her.
    Yes, her actions were wrong, but that doesn't mean you have to verbally abuse her on Facebook to let everyone know!
    Results not as good? Study harder! Results are dead, once they're printed out nothing can change it.
    Not even posting on Facebook will do any good.
    In fact posting only makes things worse, now she may feel all lonely.
    So you can't get into the first class next year, so what?
    Being in the second class won't make much difference either.
    If she was wrong, she would get her deserved punishment for her actions.
    Karma would befall on her.
    Scolding her won't change anything.
    (Mostly I would stand up to her is due to I have a little crush on her as well. No shit, don't judge me.)

    To counter this I made some posts regarding immaturity on Facebook, indirectly scolding him.
    Like friendship is not worth sacrificing for results and shit.
    But yeah, he's quite hard-headed and it won't sink in that easily.
    Now he just acts immaturely, like a 3-year-old kid.
    All of this because of a simple request to make it public.
    (Sorry if I sound out of place, but my chance to know her more just got ruined.)


    POINT:
    Guys I need your opinions on how I should advise him to be more mature.
    Or at least not to have fun to other people's demise.
    Opinions will be greatly appreciated.


    P/S: Sorry for the wall of text, just to clarify you on the situation.
    Last edited by 제프 Chong; 08-29-2013 at 03:10 PM.

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    Moral of the story: Don't let everyone and their damn mothers know that you have a facebook account.

    How the hell does someone even cheat in an English paper?! HOW?! Its not like Science or Maths where you have to memorize the formulas and elements.
    Last edited by iPandemonium; 08-30-2013 at 03:45 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iPandemonium View Post
    Moral of the story: Don't let everyone and their damn mothers know that you have a facebook account.

    How the hell does someone even cheat in an English paper?! HOW?! Its not like Science or Maths where you have to memorize the formulas and elements.
    The teacher sets the questions according to her papers from tuition.
    She sees any hard vocab right there, copy it on the table and voila.

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    Wow, next level drama.

    TBH, when I was in secondary school, my classmates cheat all the time.

    We are like a tight bunch of friends, and we share our answers around ( with ways, of course)

    Why must you guys be so harsh on a girl? I don't really see school exam results going anywhere besides of the ranking of the overall year.

    So what if she cheats? Does it affect you guys in any other way? It isn't PMR( not that there is a difference). Don't tell me the " I must uphold the reputation as one of the top students in Jit Sin " reason.

    For me, i rather retain a friendship, as cheating doesn't really mean anything to me.

    Making such a ruckus just for cheating, shows the extend of your friend's maturity.

    As for the advise for your friend, i can't really give you any, because i aint the greatest role model. But if i were you, i will prevent myself from socializing with him. Because he would backstab you any day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Baconnnnnnn View Post
    Wow, next level drama.

    TBH, when I was in secondary school, my classmates cheat all the time.

    We are like a tight bunch of friends, and we share our answers around ( with ways, of course)

    Why must you guys be so harsh on a girl? I don't really see school exam results going anywhere besides of the ranking of the overall year.

    So what if she cheats? Does it affect you guys in any other way? It isn't PMR( not that there is a difference). Don't tell me the " I must uphold the reputation as one of the top students in Jit Sin " reason.

    For me, i rather retain a friendship, as cheating doesn't really mean anything to me.

    Making such a ruckus just for cheating, shows the extend of your friend's maturity.

    As for the advise for your friend, i can't really give you any, because i aint the greatest role model. But if i were you, i will prevent myself from socializing with him. Because he would backstab you any day.
    LOL To be honest, I wanted no part of this.
    I wouldn't harm a girl I admire.
    Even if it means my reputation (which I don't give a fuck by the way)
    The victims are her ex-friends who apparently got down-ranked by her results.
    But to me this is just making a mountain out of a molehill.
    I'd go apologise to her via SMS, but maybe some other time, since she's on bad terms with us now.
    An apology now may backfire.

    By the way, I keep a distance away from him in terms of friendship, because I understand he's not a TRUE friend.
    He's someone who needs company, I'd only go as far as that.
    Last edited by 제프 Chong; 08-30-2013 at 12:51 PM.

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    Well I'm bored and need some shit to beat myself with so I came here

    So...

    I had no choice but to write it.
    I stopped reading here. You are actually at fault here. What would they threaten you with? I'ma shoot you? stab you? No, they can't do jackshit, at best it would be like disowning you, but I doubt you'd care knowing you.
    I know peer pressure is something that isn't easy to overcome, but you knew full well that would happen if you posted those stuff, you knew it was wrong and not appropriate to take it to Facebook, yet you did.

    If everyone really was pissed off by the prospects of cheating, then do the right shit and report to the teacher, not take the shit in your own hands.
    The best shit you can do right now is probably weather the storm, and somehow apologise for the ruckus you made. No, blaming your pals won't work since it's you who did it, and pushing responsibilities is the job of a pussy.
    And as I said probably days ago, you have some really fucked up people at your school (no offense), you really need to know who to choose to be friends with.


    As for how you gonna train that bastard pal of yours to be more mature, you don't. You do not have the obligation to do so, and more or less he won't listen to you anyways, so don't bother wasting time.


    Sorry for the somewhat harsh stance and language of mine, but this is just my two cents.

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    @chong come on bro peer pressure ball up son
    Last edited by 3nglish; 08-30-2013 at 11:33 PM.

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    I'd go apologise to her via SMS, but maybe some other time, since she's on bad terms with us now.
    Apologize now. In person. Apologize daily, then if comfortable, take her to some place to eat, just make sure you can patch things up.

    I had no choice but to write it.
    I'll have to disagree, you had no obligations to write it.

    If anything, i'd would had left it alone, or report to a teacher if i was really annoyed.
    You just destroyed a girl socially, and most likely mentally. Go fix the problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lycan View Post
    Well I'm bored and need some shit to beat myself with so I came here

    So...



    I stopped reading here. You are actually at fault here. What would they threaten you with? I'ma shoot you? stab you? No, they can't do jackshit, at best it would be like disowning you, but I doubt you'd care knowing you.
    I know peer pressure is something that isn't easy to overcome, but you knew full well that would happen if you posted those stuff, you knew it was wrong and not appropriate to take it to Facebook, yet you did.

    If everyone really was pissed off by the prospects of cheating, then do the right shit and report to the teacher, not take the shit in your own hands.
    The best shit you can do right now is probably weather the storm, and somehow apologise for the ruckus you made. No, blaming your pals won't work since it's you who did it, and pushing responsibilities is the job of a pussy.
    And as I said probably days ago, you have some really fucked up people at your school (no offense), you really need to know who to choose to be friends with.


    As for how you gonna train that bastard pal of yours to be more mature, you don't. You do not have the obligation to do so, and more or less he won't listen to you anyways, so don't bother wasting time.


    Sorry for the somewhat harsh stance and language of mine, but this is just my two cents.
    Thanks for the advice, I fully understand.
    I think it would be high time for me to stop socializing with him.
    But just to be clear, they're involved in this too, so even if I apologize, they won't.
    Which means she still won't talk to us, since in her impression I'm in the gang.

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    Leveling in MapleStory can be a long and tedious thing. This is why I have setup the most Ultimate guide to leveling all the way from level 1 to 250.
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