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    Sooooo I hate my life?

    So before I start, if you are going to troll, I'm going to straight up ban you for 3 days. If you are going to post something retarded or dumb or just to level up i'm going to ban you for 3 days.


    So, basically some of you might now I go to a private school, which my single mother pays on her own. So the school costs 8k a year and a bit extra. So yeah as of right now, I cant go to school because of tution problems. Okay.... Well according to them I basically had a Free year last year because according to them I didn't pay shit last year. Which makes no sense to me because obviously they wouldn't give me my books nor let me finish 1 year and almost finish this year without paying. So now they are stopping me from coming to school right before finals/regents. So basically i'm stuck because obviously its too late to find another school. So basically if I don't pay 8k within let see...10 days? I get possibly held back? GG. Fucking stealing pricks.

    Thats only 1/10th of my current situation.
    My mom has married some "childhood friend" she hasn't seen in years and thought it was some kind of faith cause they spent their childhood together and randomly found each other. Obviously, according to my family ( atleast my mom) I don't have a say in this shit since I'm a kid. So She married him a few months back. I wouldn't care as much but shit. This guy gets paid well, I know he does. He doesn't do shit for me nor my brother. Both of our birthdays passed, he didn't even care enough to give a gift. I'm not asking for a fucking big screen tv but shit man. Then he's super religious too, which is making me start to grow for a huge dislike for religion. He's basically preaching every fucking second of the day. He got in an argument with my mom saying just because she didn't let a women skip her in line she isn't a true christian. He also FORCES me and my little brother to go to church. This has been done all my life, but shit I'm 17 I have a fucking mindset. If I want to go to church, i'll go to church. Forcing me isn't going to make me like the fucking religion, even more if its a church with a language I don't even fucking UNDERSTAND. Then you give me a huge speech when I fall asleep. Shit, honestly I don't see why my mom even married him besides the whole 'its faith" shit. He doesn't do shit for us, my mom still has to pay her bills, aren't you suppose to split the work when you are married? He's even trying to force her into moving to Connecticut, by saying shit like "oh theres a devil in the house, I see snakes in the living room, you'll have a better life there" bitch please, if she does move there, I'm going to live with my aunt and uncle.

    Then there's the issues with my dad which I don't feel right telling alot of people, but some of you know a piece of it if you were here long enough.


    Sigh, I swear my life gets worse each passing day.

    Sorry for the wall of text, I just wanted to vent.

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    I'm here for you friend. I hope you feel better. I don't know why, but my life is going to shits too. My father and mother keep nagging/ranting about shit I have nothing to do about it. My laptop currently broke down, and my mother wants to go on Facebook. Since I use the desktop like everyday of the week, I dont let her on facebook. Facebook's fucking retarded anyways. Who fucking cares about fucking facebook, right? But, back to your situation. Just don't your father boss you around like that. Just tell him that your old enough to make your own responsibility. BUT I highly withdraw that situation, because at the age 18 you can move/let your parents kick you out of this house. So just try to get on his good side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NoFundsMs View Post
    I'm here for you friend. I hope you feel better. I don't know why, but my life is going to shits too. My father and mother keep nagging/ranting about shit I have nothing to do about it. My laptop currently broke down, and my mother wants to go on Facebook. Since I use the desktop like everyday of the week, I dont let her on facebook. Facebook's fucking retarded anyways. Who fucking cares about fucking facebook, right? But, back to your situation. Just don't your father boss you around like that. Just tell him that your old enough to make your own responsibility. BUT I highly withdraw that situation, because at the age 18 you can move/let your parents kick you out of this house. So just try to get on his good side.
    He's not my father he's my stepfather. But yeah,I have told both my mom that, they ignore it cause i'm a "Child"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    My mom has married some "childhood friend" she hasn't seen in years and thought it was some kind of faith cause they spent their childhood together and randomly found each other. Obviously, according to my family ( atleast my mom) I don't have a say in this shit since I'm a kid.


    Wow, that's really something to say.
    Mario, you seem old and mature enough to be able to have a say in family matters, but if she just blocks you out like that, then I don't know what's up. Seems like a really discouraging thing to say to your child.

    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    So She married him a few months back. I wouldn't care as much but shit. This guy gets paid well, I know he does. He doesn't do shit for me nor my brother. Both of our birthdays passed, he didn't even care enough to give a gift. I'm not asking for a fucking big screen tv but shit man. Shit, honestly I don't see why my mom even married him besides the whole 'its faith" shit. He doesn't do shit for us, my mom still has to pay her bills, aren't you suppose to split the work when you are married?


    That sucks. Is your mom even aware of that?
    Doesn't seem like a healthy, functional relationship, try get her to realize that, perhaps?

    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    Then he's super religious too, which is making me start to grow for a huge dislike for religion. He's basically preaching every fucking second of the day.


    I can kinda relate. My mom is always preaching about the importance of remembering God(who I don't believe in), how I should always thank God, and how I should pray more, etc etc, and it really gets annoying.

    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    He got in an argument with my mom saying just because she didn't let a women skip her in line she isn't a true christian.


    That's really dumb. Really pointless argument that's not helping their relationship.

    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    He also FORCES me and my little brother to go to church. This has been done all my life, but shit I'm 17 I have a fucking mindset. If I want to go to church, i'll go to church. Forcing me isn't going to make me like the fucking religion, even more if its a church with a language I don't even fucking UNDERSTAND.


    Again, I can relate. My mom forces(or at least tries to) me to pray, to follow her religion's rules, and all that shit. On Fridays when I don't have school, she forces me and my brothers to go to the mosque and pray, etc etc.
    Thing is, I'm 14, so I can see why they think I can't think for myself(just kidding, my family thinks I'm retarded, I'm probably smarter than most of them), but you're 17. I don't get why you're not allowed to do what you think you should do in terms of following a religion.

    Forcing religion onto you is just dumb. If you don't want to follow it, they shouldn't force you. I'm not saying rebel, but try getting the message across that you want to follow that/a religion. If they start forcing it on you more, then they're very close-minded and ignorant to the fact that people have different beliefs than they do.

    I actually dunno how to really approach this.
    Usually, your parents know if you're doing good or bad, like academically, physically, mentally, but when it comes to religion, I see that most parents really let their wishful thinking effect them and they don't notice any resistance by their children until it's just outright and blunt.
    I swear, I show that I really don't give a shit about religion, yet my mom thinks I'm a semi-devoted Muslim. The only way I'd get through to her is if I just say "I'm an atheist."

    I'm hiding two things from my mom that I know she'd look at me differently if news were to come out.
    I'm gay, and I'm an atheist. It's really obvious she doesn't have a clue, and hopefully it stays that way until she decides I can actually have a life of my own where I can be myself and not be judged by her, which realistically won't happen anytime soon for me.

    As for your case, I can't tell. Would your mom rather go on her husband's side, who, seemingly, she doesn't have an actual strong bond with, or on your side, who she's brought into this world and has known all your life? Things like this make me want to just think what another person is thinking and fix it for them.

    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    He's even trying to force her into moving to Connecticut, by saying shit like "oh theres a devil in the house, I see snakes in the living room, you'll have a better life there" bitch please, if she does move there, I'm going to live with my aunt and uncle.


    He seems to be forcing you guys to change the way you live. Kinda fits in with his pious personality.
    I don't think devils exist. Snakes in a living room can totally happen, even in New York.

    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    Then there's the issues with my dad which I don't feel right telling alot of people, but some of you know a piece of it if you were here long enough.


    I can relate, again. My dad is just, ugh. Hope you can get that fixed up, if you could somehow(I honestly don't know what the issue is).



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    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    But yeah,I have told both my mom that, they ignore it cause i'm a "Child"

    WOW

    Honestly, they're not doing themselves any good. Love is blind but the neighbors aren't. They really need to get slapped. They really should respect your opinions since it really seems to be the only one tethering them to reason.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cheesiest View Post


    Wow, that's really something to say.
    Mario, you seem old and mature enough to be able to have a say in family matters, but if she just blocks you out like that, then I don't know what's up. Seems like a really discouraging thing to say to your child.



    That sucks. Is your mom even aware of that?
    Doesn't seem like a healthy, functional relationship, try get her to realize that, perhaps?



    I can kinda relate. My mom is always preaching about the importance of remembering God(who I don't believe in), how I should always thank God, and how I should pray more, etc etc, and it really gets annoying.



    That's really dumb. Really pointless argument that's not helping their relationship.



    Again, I can relate. My mom forces(or at least tries to) me to pray, to follow her religion's rules, and all that shit. On Fridays when I don't have school, she forces me and my brothers to go to the mosque and pray, etc etc.
    Thing is, I'm 14, so I can see why they think I can't think for myself(just kidding, my family thinks I'm retarded, I'm probably smarter than most of them), but you're 17. I don't get why you're not allowed to do what you think you should do in terms of following a religion.

    Forcing religion onto you is just dumb. If you don't want to follow it, they shouldn't force you. I'm not saying rebel, but try getting the message across that you want to follow that/a religion. If they start forcing it on you more, then they're very close-minded and ignorant to the fact that people have different beliefs than they do.

    I actually dunno how to really approach this.
    Usually, your parents know if you're doing good or bad, like academically, physically, mentally, but when it comes to religion, I see that most parents really let their wishful thinking effect them and they don't notice any resistance by their children until it's just outright and blunt.
    I swear, I show that I really don't give a shit about religion, yet my mom thinks I'm a semi-devoted Muslim. The only way I'd get through to her is if I just say "I'm an atheist."

    I'm hiding two things from my mom that I know she'd look at me differently if news were to come out.
    I'm gay, and I'm an atheist. It's really obvious she doesn't have a clue, and hopefully it stays that way until she decides I can actually have a life of my own where I can be myself and not be judged by her, which realistically won't happen anytime soon for me.

    As for your case, I can't tell. Would your mom rather go on her husband's side, who, seemingly, she doesn't have an actual strong bond with, or on your side, who she's brought into this world and has known all your life? Things like this make me want to just think what another person is thinking and fix it for them.



    He seems to be forcing you guys to change the way you live. Kinda fits in with his pious personality.
    I don't think devils exist. Snakes in a living room can totally happen, even in New York.



    I can relate, again. My dad is just, ugh. Hope you can get that fixed up, if you could somehow(I honestly don't know what the issue is).



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    WOW

    Honestly, they're not doing themselves any good. Love is blind but the neighbors aren't. They really need to get slapped. They really should respect your opinions since it really seems to be the only one tethering them to reason.

    About the whole child thing, majority of my family thinks like that. Only my uncle and grandma have treated me as an equal. they has respected me enough to hear my say in arguments and shit even when i was like 12. My mom honestly thinks shes going to hold onto me as a kid forever. I'm not staying home for college, I don't care if I have to break my back 10x at McDonald to afford room and board, I'm not staying somewhere where I cannot be acknowledge as an adult.

    Regarding the marriage, she sees it, she even says it. During that stupid argument she even told him this marriage is going south, but she NEVER goes with it. Like seriously, even my grandma sees how retarded this marriage is. If he really wanted to help out, he could easily pay my tuition in full.

    Regarding religion, I'm sorta happy they forced me for the first few years of my life because really 99% of us wouldn't know what a religion is about without being forced into one as a child. But thing is, it has always been a church with another language I barely understand. Its even more counterproductive to confuse the shit out of your child when he was baptized a catholic but you take him to your churchs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Supermarioz5 View Post
    About the whole child thing, majority of my family thinks like that. Only my uncle and grandma have treated me as an equal. they has respected me enough to hear my say in arguments and shit even when i was like 12. My mom honestly thinks shes going to hold onto me as a kid forever. I'm not staying home for college, I don't care if I have to break my back 10x at McDonald to afford room and board, I'm not staying somewhere where I cannot be acknowledge as an adult.

    Regarding the marriage, she sees it, she even says it. During that stupid argument she even told him this marriage is going south, but she NEVER goes with it. Like seriously, even my grandma sees how retarded this marriage is. If he really wanted to help out, he could easily pay my tuition in full.

    Regarding religion, I'm sorta happy they forced me for the first few years of my life because really 99% of us wouldn't know what a religion is about without being forced into one as a child. But thing is, it has always been a church with another language I barely understand. Its even more counterproductive to confuse the shit out of your child when he was baptized a catholic but you take him to your churchs.

    X_X

    People just really astound me.
    Really.

    The thing about religion: Assuming you mean that learning about a religion at a young age would help you make better decisions about it; then yes, I suppose it does. It's just our parents trying to mold our environment to their liking, which could be good or bad; well-intended or ill-intended.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cheesiest View Post
    People just really astound me.
    Really.

    The thing about religion: Assuming you mean that learning about a religion at a young age would help you make better decisions about it; then yes, I suppose it does. It's just our parents trying to mold our environment to their liking, which could be good or bad; well-intended or ill-intended.
    Well, I didn't really mean that I meant that, if we aren't forced we wouldn't really be introduced to a higher being in our lives.

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    Check the bank transactions for evidence that it did go through. If it did and they deny they got it, inquire with the bank.
    Thing is, my mom always paid in cash. Now that I look back, bad choice.

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    Your Tuition Fee is 8k? a whole sh1t load of people in Quebec are protesting against a rise in tuition fees and they have the lowest tuition fees in the country that doesn't make any sense. "Their Tution like 1.6k to 2.4k i heard not sure"

    If I want to go to church, i'll go to church. Forcing me isn't going to make me like the fucking religion
    Same here. I never really listen about those lessons in church like if you still young and want to enjoy life I wouldn't want to spend it in a church... "I just day dream to pass time in church"

    Then there's the issues with my dad which I don't feel right telling alot of people, but some of you know a piece of it if you were here long enough.
    I'm not really close to my Dad but I know he would do anything for me. : (

    I don't want to comment on everything but I just everything works out for you and your family at the end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Imaginal View Post
    Your Tuition Fee is 8k? a whole sh1t load of people in Quebec are protesting against a rise in tuition fees and they have the lowest tuition fees in the country that doesn't make any sense. "Their Tution like 1.6k to 2.4k i heard not sure"


    Same here. I never really listen about those lessons in church like if you still young and want to enjoy life I wouldn't want to spend it in a church... "I just day dream to pass time in church"


    I'm not really close to my Dad but I know he would do anything for me. : (

    I don't want to comment on everything but I just everything works out for you and your family at the end.
    Thanks mike appreciate it.

 

 
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