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    Unlucky Week

    I've really had a rough week.
    Okay 1st shits first.
    First thing that happened to me this week was the stupid committee, AGAIN.
    What happened was because I was a constable, I was able to wear the full uniform.
    And the president even told us to do so.
    So I wore it to school, only to be told to change back.
    And when we explained that we did not bring our half uniforms, they unwillingly let us wear the full uniform.
    And while we were changing our belts to constable belts (special ones), we got bitched for being late.
    Like come on, we were just starting to change and in the end we had to do 60 push-ups.
    So furious at that time.
    And also I don't understand why would they give us the title but we can't enjoy its privileges.
    Why not just take away the title for good?

    And then the next one comes during the activity.
    I expect the new committee to be strict and attentive during activities.
    But no, they decide to just fuck it and goof around.
    Like they just mindlessly chat away during activities.
    I don't mind if it's occasional, but now it's like they talk every single second.
    Even the president talks and jokes with them, while we have to stand up straight for fuck's sake.
    Sometimes we just end up doing nothing the whole day.
    This is what happens every year, the new committee tends to get complacent and just take activities for granted.
    This is something that I would not bear, I have half a mind to leave this society if this situation continues.

    Then the next one comes from both Leafre and real life.

    People then tell me 'Don't post the pic then!'
    I know, but I posted that picture for memories.
    And if you think I'm short just say it in your heart or laugh away privately, don't blurt it out like this idiot over here.
    And then some fellows (a lot) on the forum started to call me short and insulting me.
    I mean, I know that and I accepted the fact.
    But please, can't you just hide someone's shame away?
    It's bad enough people say I'm short, people are laughing away about it and sometimes take advantage of me.
    I'm tolerant, I can tolerate minor degrees of mockery and take it as a joke.
    But this, this is getting out of hand and my patience has a limit.
    A Chinese book taught me: 人有短,切莫揭,人有私,切莫说。
    Which means do not expose other people's weaknesses and secrets.
    By shouting around that I'm short, you're actually trying to let the world know about it.
    Which is considered a sin.
    Please, I'm a human being, I have feelings.
    Don't try to break them deliberately.

    Again sorry for wall of text.

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    Live the moment and move on.
    No point constantly harboring thoughts and grudges about what has and was, you're just wasting energy doing these meaningless things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iPandemonium View Post
    Live the moment and move on.
    No point constantly harboring thoughts and grudges about what has and was, you're just wasting energy doing these meaningless things.
    Problem is, these things just don't come once in a while, they constantly pester me and my life.
    These are not temporary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 제프 Chong View Post
    Problem is, these things just don't come once in a while, they constantly pester me and my life.
    These are not temporary.
    Then learn to live with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iPandemonium View Post
    Then learn to live with it.
    I know.
    But I said before, patience has a limit.
    I'm not gonna just sit there and let my self-esteem torn down by comments I can do nothing about.

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Gift received at 08-14-2012, 10:22 AM from KremeChoco
    @제프 Chong

    I suppose that I'm just going to parrot some of what Panda already said, but whatever. I really can't speak much about your first issue being that I'm not particularly familiar with that society. Although, from everything that you've said about it, it seems like something I would have left a long time ago. I'd suggest standing up for what you believe in though. Get some of your lower ranking buddies, maybe some higher ups, and some other people too that think the same things as you together. Discuss some of the issues that you guys have with your society and bring it to your president in an organized manner. Explain what your issues are to him, and attempt to persuade him, in a tactful manner of course, that certain things need to be changed. If nothing is done about the issues, you might as well just leave and get the emails/phone numbers of your friends. Not much point in staying in a society that treats you like shit. But of course that's up to you. You may wish to endure the hazing and stupidity in order to remain within the society and with your friends. Anywho, onto your second issue. I'm really sorry about people making fun of you, but there really isn't too much that you can do about it. To an extent I agree with the people that say "Then don't post the picture!", but there is a line that needs to be drawn. This line really falls between teasing and insulting, which is the majority of what you need to keep in mind. When someone is poking fun at you for being short, try to figure out if they're just teasing you and trying to laugh with you, or if they're insulting you and laughing at you. There's a fine line between the two. If it's the first, try to just put up with it. I know how annoying it can be from time to time, but if there isn't anything meant to hurt you behind what they're saying, it's rather harmless. However, if it's the later, you might wish to address the issue. I suppose in either case, you could and probably should ask whoever is teasing or insulting you to stop while expressing your feelings on the subject. However, if it is just teasing, try to put up with at least some of it, it usually isn't ill intentioned. And especially if they're just teasing you, try teasing them back by saying stuff like "Hey, how's the weather up there?" and stuff like that. It keeps you on more of a level playing-field, and if done correctly can result in an understanding that the two of you were simply joking around, and an end to the discussion. And I suppose to conclude this wall of text, I'll apologize for having teased you myself. Despite me teasing you was my attempts to laugh with you, I sincerely apologize for having done so, especially with the crappy week that you're having. I hope that this coming week, as well as the many weeks to come, are much better.

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    Why do you let it get to you? So you're short, and? So what? It's not really an insult if you really are. You can't deny it, so just live with it. It feels like you think being short is inferior. It really isn't. Nor is it superior - just as being tall is - it's not inferior or superior.

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    @제프 Chong you may be short (which you think is inferior but isn't) but you are smarter than 99% of them, you said this yourself. This makes YOU better than them. Get what I'm saying?
    Last edited by Scarlet; 07-06-2013 at 10:32 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KremeChoco View Post
    Why do you let it get to you? So you're short, and? So what? It's not really an insult if you really are. You can't deny it, so just live with it. It feels like you think being short is inferior. It really isn't. Nor is it superior - just as being tall is - it's not inferior or superior.
    Of course I myself don't feel inferior.
    However in other people's eyes being shorter than them means being inferior to them.
    I see people just ignoring me whenever I talk to them.

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    Chong, its fine. It is just the Malaysian's mindset that, being tall is superior.

    But it is not true. So what if you are short? I have a friend here that is about 153, and nobody gives a damn how short he is.

    Basically, its your friends that are being asses. Ignore them. Staying with your cadet friends would be good. You seem happy with them.

    And, im the near future, you would realise that, jerks will leave you after a certain period of ignorance, or when they found someome else to tease. After all, Form 3 is just a stepping stone for you to enter your preferable stream. You might not even stay in the same class as them.

    My chinese is lacklustre, but here is one for you: 忍一时风平浪静,退一步海阔天空

 

 
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