View Poll Results: Should I run away?

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  1. #1
    Leviathan
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    Why Do I have to sacrifice for Other People

    Hello. This Erious.
    This is my first time posting my problems here.

    As the title said, WHY DO I HAVE TO SACRIFICE FOR OTHER PEOPLE? I know it's good to sacrifice for other people. It's like doing a good deed. But what's the use if we sacrifice ourselves too much, not being sincere, being forced to, and lastly, it's detrimental. EVERYDAY, I have more than 6 chores to do at home. EVERYDAY. Why? Because my parents friends, cousins, relatives keeps coming home. Why? Because my mom always promised them to have a "kenduri" (it's like a party) at home. When she promised them, I was the one who helped cleaning the entire house. I have fucking 5 siblings. and NON. I SAY NON. of them helped us. The give some stupid reason or some shit to go out. I am drowned by my own sweat. It's horrible. Next week. My aunty wants to have a wedding of her daughter here. WHY? BECAUSE MY MOM INSISTED ON USING OUR HOUSE. STUPID ISNT IT? AND IM THE ONLY WHO HAVE TO CLEAN THIS MOTHERFUCKING HOUSE. It's just dreadful. So, WHY DO WE FUCKING NEED TO SACRIFICE FOR PEOPLE IF IT'S detrimental! This is madness i tell you.

    My second problem would be my asshole worst brother in tho whole wide universe. He is the first son while I'm the last btw. He just got married 3 months ago. And we have to move his wife's furniture into our home. You know how many stuff are there? More than 30 boxes. Heavy ones and more than 5 FUCKING HEAVY FURNITURE. QUEENSIZE BED. THE BED'S BASE. CLOSET. SOFA AND MORE. AND IM HELPED THEM MOVED. MY BROTHER PROMISED THAT HIS FRIENDS WOULD HELP. BUT NOOOOOOOOOOO. His fucking friends ditched him. and me and my other brothers HAD TO HELP. Isn't that one fucking asshole brother? I'm not done yet. There's worse. His wife is a fucking antisocial with our family. Everyday, the newlywed couple went to see the wife's family. EVERYDAY, after work. But us? NOOOO. FUCKING NO. THEY JUST HANG OUT IN THEIR FUCKING ROOM FOR 24 HOURS. NEVER WENT OUT. I MEAN SERIOUSLY. HANG OUT WITH US, WE would like you to knwo us better and we want to know you better too. In that 3 months period, SHE NEVER DID FUCKING WORK. ONLY ME. EVERY SINGLE DAY. Fuck her, Fuck my brother. You know my mom, whenever she ask me to do work, she's all fucking strict. When my brother did work, she's all fucking sweet. Even if he do something wrong, she scolded him nicely. While me, i fucking dropped a cup ON THE TABLE, SHE'S FUCKING MAD. COMPLAIN THAT COMPLAIN THIS > DO THIS RIGHT DO THAT RIGHT.

    And now, The couple decided to move the fucking OUT. WHAT THE FUCK. It's only been three months and we dont even know her. and today, I helped them clean their room. FUCK. ALL THOSE FURNI and STUFF HAVE TO GO DOWN AGAIN. IT"S FUCKING HEAVY AND ALOT. AND GUESS WHAT. HIS FRIENDS DITCHED HIM AGAIN. FUCK. AND IM THE ONLY ONE HELPING. STUPID BROTHERS AND SISTERS DECIDED TOG O OUT TODAY. UGHH. I Just hate my life. After moving the furnitures, its been brought to their new home, HE FUCKING LEFT HIS STUFF OVER HERE. THERE"S FUCKING ALOT. AND HE WONT COME TO CLEAN IT. SO ME AND MY MOM HAD TO CLEAN IT. DURING THAT CLEANING PERIOD, My Mom keeps nagging how bad is he. Then when he came, SHE's LIKE A FUCKING ANGEL. Stupid. I just hate my fucking life.

    Is this a concern? Should i run away from home? just live in the cyber cafe and play KMS there?
    They dont fucking love me.

    Thank you for listening.
    I added a poll.
    Sorry because there's too much swears. I hope you feel me.



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    Running away is kind of overreacting.

    Sure, doing all that work all by yourself must really suck, but your mom knows he's horrible for not coming and helping when you cleaned it after they moved out. She probably acted really nice because, hey, it's her oldest kid who not-so-recently got married.

    Except your mom acting douchey to you and not to your brother seems fucked up.
    "One day I'll be something great, but until then, I'm just another piece of shit like every other fuckhead on this planet."

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    Definitely don't run away, if anything, join some type of club, or even the local gym.
    It helps more than you think.

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    @Ethan
    Yeah it really suck. :( Thanks for reading :) Guess what, he just came. and now, he's acting like an angel.

    @Deception
    I forgot to post this. I became and anti social because of my parents.
    I can't go out or my friends cant even come to my house. That's why i'm sitting right here in this chair, playing KMS all day long.
    They dont even let me go to the nearest field.! :(



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Gift received at 08-14-2012, 10:22 AM from KremeChoco
    Argue with your parents for some rights, sounds scary at first, but show that you're capable of being independent.
    With that accomplished, you can start on those outside hobbies.

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Gift received at 08-14-2012, 10:22 AM from KremeChoco
    I know this sucks, but running away is NEVER EVER EVER the solution.
    Because after a while when you look back, when you crave for the comfort of home, there is nothing.
    I know that your family may be quite harsh, but you should understand the concept of Karma.
    Every action has its results.
    At least this is the teachings of Buddhism. I'm not sure about Islam though.
    For instance, your family asks too much of you. Just bear with it. Maybe someday, something good will happen.
    This teaches you to face your problems, not run away from them.
    But if you run away, your parents will be the saddest of all.
    They have just lost their most important creation. All those years of caring amounting to zero.
    I just want to say that running away has many repercussions and is considered a sin because you are breaking your parents' hearts.
    So face the problems, be a man.

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    Leviathan
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    @Chong

    Now that's inspirational. :') Sucha nice advice.
    After hearing all these thoughts. I decided not to run. :)

    @Deception

    I don;t wanna argue with my parents. They're the typical Asian Malay Family.
    You know what that means? They scold you for pointing out their mistake.
    Typical Malay.



  8. #8
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    You should just talk to your Mom/Brother/Anyone who is bugging you about how you feel, how it seems that your really the only one doing work. Tell them how you really feel. If swearing is involved with how you really feel, maybe not EXACTLY how you feel, but just let them know that you don't appreciate doing all the work as you say you do. But definitely don't run away. Unless your old enough to drive/support yourself/have enough education to get a proper job, running away will never be the solution.
    Humans are like math, we can Add a bed, Subtract our clothes, Divide our legs, and Multiply!



  9. #9
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    Dont run away, show pride in yourself and take the stand. Your not there slave. Tell them how you feel. And for the people who voted "run away" are you stupid? God..

 

 

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